The Old Unseen Block

The time it takes a couple to get over an impasse is just wasted time. Why so many many divorces in our land? Why so many struggles in marriage and relationships? What does it take for a couple to see that these roadblocks are very straining to a relationship? There is never an "I'm right", only a bad understanding that it takes to to make it in a relationship. Compromise is never a counting contest to see how many times you or your mate gave in and was wrong. If we are to make it, it is by first, God's grace, secondly and understanding that we must work at breaking down the unseen road blocks. The need to be right is often a symptom of unresolved history. Perhaps a learned behavior. We must work very hard on seeing ourselves as people that need to constantly work on ourselves.