Laying all the jokes aside throw the mistakes under the kitchen

Sometimes when you see people scrambling to fix a problem that they themselves  caused by trying to deceive or hurt another person is very eye-opening. To watch this backstroking is sometimes hilarious, but also sad.  I feel that God will sometimes allow your enemies to fall in front of your face and you feel more  sorrow than vindication.  There are the times when you feel total vindication.  Then ther'e are the times when what ever happens the chapter seems to never end. 
I have learn from past experiences that forgiving your enemies releases you from the pain and body of hatred. It is the same hatred that will in turn cause you to impose the  same behavior on another; Hatred will cause you to suffer sickness in your own body. So the best remedy  for somebody that he imposed themselves on me is to forgive them. To forgive does not mean for me to allow their behavior to keep happening. Just if someone stepped on my toe, will I allow it to happen over and over again? Eventually I will either move my foot or or stop the action against my person. Yes we have been taught to turn the other  cheek but there are circumstances where we must tell the other person to get off of my foot. I remember hearing it like this. Some times people will live in accordance with the Scripture,  but there are times that you have to help some live it.